Like any other kind, transgender dating comes with a set of rules. You can decide to no play by them, but the odds are you will crash and burn. So read these guidelines before you start going on transgender dates. It can’t hurt, can it?
What are you looking for?
If you are transexual dating, you have probably met your date online. When you finally have the opportunity to talk to face to face, discuss why you were online and what you hope to gain from it. See want you want to get out of all this dating, and whether you are on the same page. It doesn’t matter of you are looking for true love or just a hookup, you need to let her know what your intentions are so you can both see if your dating has any point at all.
Don’t be too judgy
If you are dating a trans girl, you probably already have an open mind, but it doesn’t hurt to say it. If she is wearing something you hate or has the “wrong” hair color, don’t throw in the towel just yet. Give your date some slack. Get to know her before you make your decision
Make eye contact
When you are on your first date and you realize that you like this girl, make a lot of eye contact. It can let her know that you are interested in her. If you have hard time making eye contact, let her know. This way she won’t think that you are bored or simply rude.
The point of your first date is for you to get to know each other. And the best way to do that is to ask her questions. If you are nervous about your date, prepare some back up questions beforehand. Just make sure they are not about her sex life or trans issues.
Don’t talk about your ex
Maybe they will come up in your conversation, but just mention them and move on. Your date surely doesn’t want to listen to you talk about your past lover. This date is about a new beginning, so focus on the future.
If it is not going well…
Never feel forced to keep the date going if you see it is pointless. Don’ stay any longer than you want to. Politely end your date and go home. Oh, and don’t tell her that you will call her if you have no intention of doing so.